Sun Tzu's art of war

Recently, I'm reviewing Hua Shan's art of war , Is like .

　　 The key point that Hua Shan emphasized many times in the course is “ Sun Tzu's art of war is not the art of war , It's the method of not fighting ; It's not the way to win , It's the invincible way ; It's not the way to win more with less , But to win more than less ”.

　　 In fact, it is difficult to sum up such a truth by reading Sun Tzu's art of war directly , So hearing Hua Shan's summary like this is very subversive , But after listening to his detailed explanation, I felt that it was true ！

　　“ It's not the way to win , It's the invincible way ”, This sentence is particularly touching , It's really telling me the first half of my life , Make a mess of the East, make a mess of the West , In the end, nothing came out .

　　 I've always been a busy person , I liked it in College “ Get something ”, But doing something means nothing , Everything is just a taste .

　　 Watching others participate in the competition, I also participate , I also take the postgraduate entrance examination for others , I also look for others to find jobs .

　　 No place in the final competition , Give up when the postgraduate entrance examination is approaching the end , I went to any company for an interview for my first job .

　　 Continue to do things after work , The front-end fire learns from the front-end ,java Fire makes trouble java,AI Fire also learned a few days of in-depth learning , In the end, I didn't get much from my job , Faced with a sudden career change, I suddenly became dumbfounded .

　　 Finally, nothing is achieved .

　　 Why ？ In fact, that is “ Want to win ”, Always looking for ways to overcome , If you want to win, you need to find a chance , To find a chance to win is to move . The same is true of war in ancient times , The chances of winning are always changing , But patronizing yourself to change must be a failure , According to Sun Tzu's art of war , We should let the enemy change , I will not change , The enemy moved , Don't move yourself , This is the law of invariance 、 The law of immobility 、 The invincible method .

　　 In my current understanding , What should we do according to the guiding ideology of Sun Tzu's art of war ？

　　 The first is to do nothing ！

　　 To do nothing is to conserve energy , Don't find something to do if you have nothing to do , Lying in bed and emptying your mind is better than brushing your cell phone, right , Brushing your mobile phone is quite energy-consuming . Lying in the dormitory, brushing your mobile phone and playing games is also better than casually finding a part-time job , Know that time is money , The benefits of part-time jobs are far less than the value of your time .

　　 When I don't know what to do , You should do nothing .

　　 At school , Many students go part-time after school , I feel I can get some experience , But now I think that poor experience is far less than 1% of serious work experience 、 One thousandth , That is to pay ten times the time and effort , Only get one tenth of the income and experience , Such a business is really too bad , Precious learning time is wasted . If you spend that time learning professional knowledge , The income after work is a hundred times a thousand times .

　　 Business people , It's often uncomfortable to have a little spare money on your hand , You have to invest something , In the end, I lost everything , Accidentally, the original accumulation is gone .

　　 People at work are also busy , Don't focus on your work , All day in the company, there are either people or things , Change the environment and you will find that you have nothing left behind , Nothing .

　　 Now I want to raise a baby, too , Always can't see the baby idle , Be sure to sign up for a class on weekends , In fact, what can I learn ？ Just find a place to spend money , Relieving anxiety , Those small bosses who run training courses , A training teacher who has made a mess of his own learning , Can you seriously teach me something useful ？

　　 But the law of non war 、 The law of immobility 、 The law of inaction , Don't really lie flat and do nothing , But to achieve strategic goals . The main reason why most of us fail in life is that we have no strategic goals , Use one small goal after another to guide your actions , As a result, I fell into one trap after another made by myself , I feel quite full .

　　 Goal setting is subtraction ！

　　 Subtraction is still fashionable , In fact, Sun Tzu summed it up thousands of years ago . In order to achieve strategic goals, the first thing is not what you want to do , But do nothing .

　　 The college entrance examination period should be the most efficient stage in our life , At that time, there was a goal “ take the university entrance examination ！”, All energies are working towards this goal , Naturally, twice the result with half the effort .

　　 But it was parents at that time 、 The teacher helped us subtract , This can't be done 、 That can't be done 、 Don't let your hair grow long 、 You can't play games at night ...

　　 I immediately released myself after I went to college , What do you want to do , I want to try something , In the end, most of them are useless , waste one 's time , Most people's College harvest is not even as much as lying in the dormitory reading novels and cartoons , Reading novels somehow enriches the spirit , Going out to surf may also affect your physical and mental health .

　　 This is also our education problem , Before the college entrance examination “ help ” Students have finished subtraction , Students have no sense of purpose , The university is in a mess , Work is also confused , As soon as you open and close your eyes 30 More .

　　 Subtraction is to subtract all other interference options , Get the most original thing , That is our ultimate goal .

　　 What is the most important thing in school ？ Nature is learning , So we subtract all the other options , Get the final goal , Study ！

　　 What is most important at work ？ Money , So we also subtract all other options , Get the final goal , Make money ！

　　 Looking for a girlfriend ？ We can also subtract all attachment options , Get the ultimate goal , That is to find a partner , What is a partner ？ Just love you 、 People who care about you ！

　　 Planning is adding

　　 When we decide “ Going to school is learning knowledge ” After this goal , All arrangements can be implemented around this goal . For example, what should I do if I am tired of going to school , Nature is rest ！

　　 Rest is also skilled , The combination of work and rest does not mean learning for an hour and playing games for an hour , Rest is to change your mind . This skill is too strong to be discussed here .

　　 When we set the goal that the job is to make money , All arrangements should also be implemented around making money . For example, we should accumulate experience well , Not afraid of hardship, not afraid of fatigue , But when the accumulation reaches the bottleneck, you should change your job , Move towards more money . Of course, it's not that job hopping is the only way to make money , This depends on the leadership , It's a hundred times more important to follow the leader than to work hard , The big environment and platform account for 80% The effect of , So the way to make money is a bigger platform , More suitable leaders .

　　 But it's not absolutely , I mean, you should set a goal first , It's not necessarily money , For example, we want to be the first in the industry, which is also a good goal , Make a plan around the goal instead of fooling around every day . Making plans also requires the help of experienced people , But this person is definitely not our parents , They are all ordinary people , In fact, I don't understand the changes of this society , We have to look for a long-term view 、 Tall people , For example, leaders 、 Teacher , But don't meet a liar , Now many such liars , Help you find a shortcut . All the useful suggestions are to tell you that this is hard work, not to tell you that he has a shortcut , Shortcuts are deceptive .

　　 Looking for a girlfriend and a wife is similar , Your goal is to find a beautiful woman , Then go around this goal , Don't think you can't find a beautiful wife if you're not beautiful , In fact, there are still paths , So many flowers on cow dung, right . But not to learn PUA The set of , The first thing to find someone is sincerity, not deception , Looking for a job and educating children is also , You have to be sincere , Don't cheat others or yourself . The world is so big that you can always find someone who is beautiful and suitable for you , If you don't find it, it's just because you haven't cast a net . I know a brother , His goal is to find a rich wife , Just follow this goal , I really found , He is a wonderful flower , But after the goal is clear, you can always find it as long as you spread the net widely enough . And he is especially sincere , Just say to find a good one , Don't hide it , In fact, the woman can also accept , Don't accept it , It doesn't matter , Not suitable .

　　 When you change jobs , Just say you want to go to a better platform , Don't hide it , In fact, your leader can understand you very well , Even support you . This is the benefit of sincerity , If you cheat others, you won't cheat yourself . Many people think that cheating others can work , In fact, I just cheated myself . The same is true of parents' education of children , Always use one lie after another to deal with the present , The result is to cheat yourself , How fast does baby learn , He soon lost trust in you , It's no use saying anything .

　　 So the key to adding is sincerity , Don't cheat yourself , It's right to rest between studies , But don't deceive yourself that playing games is rest , Playing games is not rest . It's right to ask after your girlfriend , But don't lie to yourself that you don't have eyes to find the right feeling , How can I feel so much , Just dislike that others are not beautiful , Get to know someone who feels beautiful .

　　 Add the useful and subtract the useless

　　 Human energy is actually very limited , If you do this, you can't do another , For most ordinary people, this is the reality , Ordinary people don't exist, they have to , Both and . For example, we often say that “ People without me have , People have me all , I'm good at everything ”, This is actually a big lie . People are not too different , What you can do, others can do , How good you can be, others can be so good, even better , So there is no such thing as everything is good .

　　 But people have accumulation , For example, some people are born billionaires , This is what his parents accumulated , Accumulation is real . So we should not only do , Still have to do something accumulated . For example, when looking for a job, we try to go to large enterprises and platforms , When you stay on the big platform, you accumulate , Worst of all, you have accumulated background . If you work in a small company , Like everyone else , If you change your company, people will never refer to your previous background , Just look at your work skills , You will feel oppressed , I'm like a commodity , Buyers look left and right, pick left and pick right , There are too many interviews, which is a great psychological blow . What comes out of the big platform is different , Your words and farts are fragrant , People at least look up at you , Even if I finally find you are a straw bag, I will sigh “ You say? XXX Why did the company come out with such a straw bag “. The same is true of a good university , Finding a good teacher for the baby is also . I myself am a vivid case , Worked in a relatively large platform for seven or eight years , Later, when looking for a job, people will think that at least it won't be too bad , To be honest, I got a bonus . Then I will see those wild ways that are not pleasing to my eyes , It feels like fooling around , They are despised strategically , This is the power of being influenced .

　　 No matter looking for a job or educating a child, it is useful to be able to accumulate , For example, WA enrolled him in various classes when he was very young , At most, one year , so what ？ Then learn another one . It's useless without accumulation . To learn piano, you must take the grade examination , Otherwise, it's better not to learn . If you feel you can't pass the intermediate level or above, don't learn , Why waste that money ？ You said that every day, baby ？ To be honest, most skills don't need talent , Practice makes perfect . And the learning platform is very important , You said you followed XXX, Even if you study carelessly and get a good grade , Actually, that's enough , Most people can't tell good from bad . It's not that we should be so utilitarian , Isn't it good to develop interest for children ？ So at the beginning, your goal is to play casually , Then you should do a good job in psychological construction , Children are just playing , Don't go back and say how much you paid . What you pay is useless , It also wastes her time playing games . Double lose , boring .

　　 So adding is to accumulate , Time is fair , You pay a minute, you get a minute , This minute's harvest can accumulate 10 Seconds is success , When you give 1 year 、5 year ‘、10 year , You are the leader in the industry , It depends on accumulation . Is talent useless ？ Talent is of great use , You pay 1 Minutes of harvest 10 second , People pay 1 You can harvest in minutes 1 minute , Faster than you 10 times . Do you want to 10 year , The somebody else 1 It's done in , You can't be unconvinced . so what ？ He will become the first in the world , so what , Let's be honest second 、 Isn't the hundredth good , He is talented , It's enough for us to be the 100th . You have succeeded , You can't stop doing it because you can't do it first , You are not the Savior .

　　 A lot of work IT It's also true that I like to do open source projects and blog , Besides helping the boss make money , You have to accumulate yourself ,IT The best accumulation in the industry is open source projects and blogs , Otherwise, if you change the platform, there is nothing left and nothing left .

　　 Work should also be accumulated , When a project is delivered, it's gone , change 0 了 , The next project you start again . Why are programmers anxious ？ After all, there is no accumulation , But I found that those big brothers who often engage in open source projects are relatively less anxious , From the blog, at least it's light , There is no middle-aged anxiety at a large age .

　　

　　 It's a mess to think of where to write , On this! , Take a rest on weekends if you don't want to do anything .