Love yourself first, then others.

Love , Start with yourself , Only learn to love yourself , Can learn to love others , Love the world , Love is not a selfish behavior , The love we are talking about here is not vanity , greedy , Arrogant , pride oneself on being out of the ordinary , But a kind of kindness to yourself , Unconditional acceptance of oneself .

If you can realize that you are a complex with self-esteem , If you can pay attention to health , Maintain your physical and mental health , And you have already learned to love yourself .

We should know , We have enough reasons to love ourselves , First, only oneself can belong to oneself ; Second, only love yourself , To love others , Love the world .

We have no deep blue sky , But it can have the elegance of white clouds , We don't have the vastness of the sea , But you can have the clarity of a stream , We have no sunshine , But there can be twinkling stars , We don't have the soaring eagle . But there can be birds flying , Everyone has a place , Everyone can find their place , We should believe in , Because there are thousands of me , The world will become colorful . Life will become wonderful .

Love yourself seriously once , This time it was 100 year .

The famous psychologist Alison pointed out , People should love themselves first , Just know how to love others , Because only regard oneself as valuable , People with a clear self-image can have a sense of security , Have the courage to love others .

To love oneself , Or self love , Yes and selfish , It's a different state of being self-centered , selfish , Is self-centered , It is all private . Not only don't think of others , More likely to ignore the interests of others , To achieve the goal by all means , To love yourself is to learn to take care of and protect yourself , I like myself , Appreciate your strengths , At the same time, we should also accept our shortcomings , So as to strive to improve themselves .

In this state of mind , We will learn a lot about how to get along with ourselves , It can also be used flexibly in interpersonal relationships , After accepting yourself, you will begin to have tolerance ; After knowing how to appreciate yourself , You will understand how to appreciate others , After mastering the method of protecting yourself, you will also realize that the heart of preventing others is indispensable , There is no reason to harm others .

A person who does not love himself will not understand how to love others and accept others , So everything has to start with loving yourself , Psychologist Dr Bernard said , People who don't love themselves will worship others , But because worship makes others look great , And make yourself more small , They envy others , This envy comes from the inner sense of security , A feeling of need being filled , But such people don't love others , Because to love others is to affirm their existence and growth , They have nothing of their own , Of course, it's impossible to give it to others .

Everyone has shortcomings , To build a good relationship with others , First of all, learn to accept your imperfect self . No one can be perfect , So we must face ourselves , Accept yourself , Be sure of yourself , Appreciate yourself .

If a person doesn't love himself , When others show kindness to him , He will think that others must be asking for themselves , Or the other party must not be very good , Just want to maintain with yourself , Such people will constantly criticize themselves , So that others feel that he has a problem , And try to avoid people like him , Fear that the more others know themselves , The less I like myself , So before others refuse , Subconsciously, they will destroy others' good feelings for themselves , In short, not loving yourself will lead to various problems , When a person thinks he is bad , People around will suffer along .

So before you start loving others , You must love yourself first , The world is like a mirror , Problems between people are mostly in the form of problems between us , So we don't need to try to change others , Just change your mind properly , Interpersonal relationships have improved .