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Stop being a giant baby

2022-06-26 20:48:00 【Ronny said】

Today, I finally applied for the official account , Although the wechat ecosystem is not particularly friendly to creators , Because in this ecology, creators are limited to social contact with acquaintances , Social contact with acquaintances will produce ‘ information cocoons ’. Apply for it , Intended as a knowledge management record , As well as the social information 、 Reflection record .

Don't be a baby of the times

Today's topic is whether we live in the age of giant babies

Opinions are the output of personal articles , Does not constitute any social attack

What is a giant baby

Wikipedia ：“ Big baby ^[1] Is a popular Chinese word , The original meaning refers to a huge baby , It is now commonly used to describe mentally immature adults . The characteristic of giant babies is that they only know what to take but not what to give , And psychologically fragile , In the event of an unexpected situation , Would have gone overboard .”

That's it ‘ Big baby ’ It doesn't mean a newborn or a child's type of physical disease

Just a general reference , Mental immaturity 、 Mental fragility 、 Irascible adults

The following reference Wu Zhihong ：90% Of Chinese adults are “ Big baby ”^[2] Let's discuss this topic ,

Giant baby loves the world around him

Mr. Wu gives several examples to illustrate his point of view , The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law （ Chinese family problems , You will know after experience ^_^）、 The old man who cheated people after being hit 、 Love and marriage forum ‘ Naibaonan ’、 The emperor and Empress Dowager of history .

6 A baby months ago thought that his mother would meet all his needs , Build a mother baby community , This is the most primitive symbiosis .

Sad is , such as

In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law , Complain about mother-in-law interfering in life , And the husband doesn't object , In fact, it is the mother baby relationship between husband and mother-in-law , One of the psychological characteristics of giant babies is “ symbiosis ”, So now many people have become a normal state for gnawing on the old , I even feel that gnawing on the old is glorious . I think my parents' money is my own , Old people also like to interfere in their children's lives .

History does not have this behavior

In history, most Chinese men have the dream of emperor , Chinese women have many dreams of Empress Dowager , The motive force of this dream , I just want to have supreme power , Let the whole world revolve around your imagination .

《 Giant baby country 》^[3] After finish , Wuzhihong also thinks that she is from a psychological point of view , It analyzes Chinese society and Chinese history .“ We grew up in the giant baby country .” He said ,50 After the 70 Then there are fake adults 、 True giant baby ,80 After the 00 Then there are giant babies from inside to outside ,“ How else could there be so much ‘ baby ’ The catchwords of ?”

Don't try to help the giant baby grow up

Wuzhihong reminds , Don't try to help the giant baby grow up , Otherwise it is too narcissistic .“ The reason why adults are giant babies , One reason is that , I hope I can have a chance to return to the infant state , Be well satisfied .”

Keep it upside down ！！！

One year ago , Many children are raised across generations 、 Or a nanny , Children's needs are not met .

One to three years old , The child enters the first rebellious period , When the child says no, the parents' control over the child is enhanced .

After the age of six , When children need to grow up independently , Parents 、 teacher 、 Society requires them to “ obedient ”.

Get married and have children when you grow up , Parents interfere with their love problems , Some people even worry about their children after they get married , Insist on living with children .

There should be less satisfaction from mother infant symbiosis , Instead, they only intervene when they grow up , Even interfere in their lives . The real problem lies in this backward thinking .

I live with you , I also want omnipotent narcissism to let you listen to me . Symbiosis and strangulation exist in every part of our culture , Everywhere, people are talking about benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith , In fact, you should be benevolent, righteous, courteous, wise and trustworthy , And I want Wuzhi .

Personal thinking

The phenomenon of giant babies is indeed looming in every one of us .

Many of the author's views do not have much scientific basis , This is also criticized by netizens . I think teacher Wu raised a question , Provides assumptions , But to prove the hypothesis , It really needs to design a sophisticated experimental scheme .

Digression : 《 Giant baby country 》 In the major forums 、 The bookstore has been taken off the shelves . As a popular book in those days 、 It has been specially published for a period of reading . If given the chance , You can read it , There may be new insights .