Three factors affecting personal growth

What makes a person successful ？
Why can some people be better than others ？
Why can some people find a source everywhere , And some people are often rejected ？
What truth is hidden in this ？
What are the factors that affect a person ？
Based on my experience in recent years , Three factors are summarized , Let's take a look

I don't know how to define the standard of success , Let's look at an example first
1. One in a hundred interview , No one else can meet the opportunity , And he can face it easily .
2. A difficult plan , No one else is sure , And he can handle it easily .
We do not consider improper means , Most of it is this person who has something extraordinary .
The so-called "people without me" , People have me.
The secret of success

Three factors

The first one is , Active effort , Have a clear goal , Have ambition .
This of course is the most efficient , But we must persist for a long time , Be strict with your own high standards , You should have the momentum of not giving up until you reach your goal . Keep going , Constantly reflect and summarize , Until you reach your goal .

Individuals have clear goals , Have great ambition , Who am I going to be , What kind of height do I want to reach , How do I wait .
A representative ： lei
lei ： Football player Wu Lei's dream when he was a child was that the transfer fee should reach 6000 Thousands of dollars , Now it has become the hope of the whole village .
Determination is the most long-term driving force , Because I have a direction, I can approach him step by step , Finally achieve it .

The second kind , Passive effort , poverty , What everyone said was forced , Because the family is poor , Or the investment fails , Or the business fails , At present, it is in a relatively low living standard or ability level, etc , If you don't work hard, you won't be able to eat , Being looked down upon by others , Can't get a wife and so on , Then when you are poor, you want to change , Then I began to make up my mind , This is an indirect aspiration .
Such as , The children of the poor are in charge of the family early , I can't give you an example for the time being , You can imagine that .

The third kind of , It is also a passive effort , The people around are excellent , In order not to look too out of date , So I will gradually become excellent .

A representative ： Deng Zi chess , Students of Hengshui middle school
For example, Deng Ziqi , Why do you say that ？
Deng Ziqi's mother is from the Vocal Music Department of Shanghai Conservatory of music ,
Grandma teaches singing
My uncle plays the violin ,
Grandpa plays Saxophone in the band ,
It should be that Deng Ziqi grew up under the influence of music most of the time .
Students of Hengshui middle school , Because the students around me are working hard , I have to work hard .

The three factors I mentioned , Top to bottom , To weaken in turn ,
Of course, the influence of self determination is much stronger than that of others .
So people who have their own goals can go further , In this way, you can force yourself to become excellent with the help of the third force , How do you make your own life goals , And realize it step by step ？

You can refer to my history blog
1.《 Imagine you in five years —< Challenge your faith >》
2.《 How to set an achievable annual goal ？》

Last

Everyone is influenced by many factors , And become who you are today , So if you want to go faster , We should contact more people who are better than ourselves .
How do you get in touch with good people ？

It's simpler , To learn more , How to read , Think more .
To learn more ： Most of the knowledge you need to learn is available on the Internet , You can go to B standing , And related technology websites .
Reading a book ： Look at the works of outstanding people , It's also called meeting excellent people , It's just a matter of tens of dollars , There is basically no saying that you can't afford it . There are also books to read after buying , Don't let it eat ashes at home . Methods? , After buying each book , Write the date of purchase on the first page of the book , When you see this date later , You will probably know how long this book has been bought .

It's more difficult , For example, go to see Ma Yun , Of course, if you're not prepared for anything , Go directly to block Ma Yun , Basically there will be no result , Because you are basically like a fan , What is the essence of the relationship between people ？ It's a value exchange ！ You have to give yourself enough value to exchange , Then try to get the contact information of Ma Yun , This is what happens naturally .（ I seem to have seen Ma Yun , ha-ha ！）
You need to know that people's abilities change over time , No one is born to be loser Of . To believe in ： My life depend on myself not the fate .

Ps. I look after you ！

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