I will be working for four years , From the perspective of career 、 Make a systematic summary of the concept of money and the concept of happiness .
Career view
Division of work
Through the proportion of mental and physical strength , The work is simply divided . The higher the level of physical strength , The less physical labor . The higher the mental level , The more mental work .
With the division of work , We can clearly position ourselves in the society 、 The role you play at work .
Self orientation
Medium mental strength + Medium strength . The blue flag represents the current position , The red flag represents the goal and direction in the next one to two years .
Work is only one way to accumulate wealth , But whether we can realize our self-worth is also important . Focus on the goals you set , A good result is a high probability event , But if there is a small probability event , It should be in a reasonable time , In time 、 Stop losses bravely .
Money view
In the process of primitive accumulation, we should Feet on the ground , We should For those routes .
Income division
Division of expenditure
Income and expenditure
About income
Macroeconomic is cyclical , Wealth appreciation only needs to follow the trend . Work is relatively stable 、 Sustainable primitive accumulation approach , Offset the uncertainty of short-term economy with the certainty of original accumulation , The final result is a high probability event . Do you believe in light ？ Belief is existence .
About expenses
You can choose the items that you can afford . As long as there is no extravagance , You can use part of your expenses to please yourself , There is no need to feel guilty .
The concept of happiness
Life is not just about getting bread , It also includes making bread 、 Enjoy bread and share it with others . Because I am not a person who is good at grasping happiness , Most of the views on happiness are from 《 The way to be happy 》 From this book .
Happiness model
The horizontal axis in the quadrant chart represents the current , The vertical axis represents the future . There are four types ： Busy type 、 Hedonistic 、 Nihilism type 、 Feeling happy .
Busy type
“ Busy type ” People don't know how to enjoy what they are doing , But stick to “ Once the goal is achieved , Will be very happy .” The wrong idea of . Set goals for yourself time and time again , Think that achieving the goal is the standard to measure everything . Once the goal is achieved , Will explain the relaxed mood as happiness , It seems that the more difficult it is to do , The happier you are . such “ illusion ” Happiness comes from the elimination of stress and anxiety . Precisely because “ Busy type ” Of people believe that relaxation and liberation after the goal is achieved is happiness , So I will keep looking for the next goal .
Hedonistic
“ Hedonistic ” People are always looking for happiness and avoiding pain . Blindly satisfy desires , Never seriously consider the consequences , As long as the present thing can make you happy, it is worth doing .“ Hedonistic ” Of people mistakenly put effort and pain 、 Pleasure and happiness are assimilated .
Nihilism type
“ Nihilism type ” Those who have given up the pursuit of happiness , They no longer believe in the meaning of life . Such people indulge in the past and give up the present and the future . This mentality is called “ Learned helplessness ”, The most popular word in the near future is “ Rotten ”.“ Nihilism type ” People are completely misreading the reality , Think you can't get happiness no matter what you do .
Feeling happy
Present and future happiness . Sometimes it can be balanced , For example, enjoy learning 、 Happiness created at work , You will get a good profit in the end ; Enjoy the beauty of love , Help each other 、 Grow up together . Of course, sometimes it can't be balanced , For example, studying for a surprise exam , Work to achieve a specific goal , At this point, we must sacrifice our present happiness , But don't forget to explore as much as possible what can bring happiness in the present and future .
Summary of the concept of happiness
Sustainable happiness is a happy struggle for a meaningful goal . Last year I often thought about “ Happiness ” This problem , People are basically in “ Busy and busy ” This quadrant , And “ Once the goal is achieved , Will be very happy .” The opposite of this idea is “ Once the goal is not achieved , Will be very depressed .”, If you can find happiness in the process , Instead of blindly pursuing the result itself , And I will not find that I have wasted a period of time in retrospect .
Last
All the above are rational analysis , But man is a sentimental animal . As long as it is not against morality 、 Not breaking the law , Any choice is right .
